{"id":327,"date":"2014-04-04T17:04:40","date_gmt":"2014-04-04T15:04:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/waterbouwpastor.nl\/?p=327"},"modified":"2014-04-04T17:09:26","modified_gmt":"2014-04-04T15:09:26","slug":"een-gerespecteerde-ouwe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/waterbouwpastor.nl\/?p=327","title":{"rendered":"Een gerespecteerde &#8216;ouwe&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ik had al even niets meer op mijn weblog geschreven. Deels kwam dit door mijn bezoekreis naar Qatar, maar vooral ook door het overlijden van mijn vader net na mijn thuiskomst.<\/p>\n<p>Ik heb een tijdje geaarzeld om iets daarover op mijn weblog te schrijven. Het gaat hier om iets heel persoonlijks. Maar toen dacht ik: waarom niet? Als kustvaartkapitein heeft juist mijn vader me vertrouwd gemaakt met het maritieme leven. Door hem was ik als kind al gewend om op een schip rond te lopen. En ik weet ook hoe het voelt wanneer je vader een aantal weken van huis is &#8211; en hoe leuk het is als hij verlof heeft.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Kapitein-Francke.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-328\" alt=\"Kapitein Francke\" src=\"http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Kapitein-Francke-300x235.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"235\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Kapitein-Francke-300x235.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Kapitein-Francke-1024x803.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Kapitein-Francke.jpg 1470w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0<em>In vroeger jaren<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In de laatste jaren ging mijn vader qua gezondheid achteruit. Veel dingen kosten hem moeite. Maar het minieme fotootje op mijn mobiel herkende hij direct, zonder aarzelen. Genomen vanaf een hopper op de Nieuwe Waterweg: de plaats waar hij geboren was en waar hij zo vaak vroeger was langs gevaren.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Nieuwe-Waterweg.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-329\" alt=\"Nieuwe Waterweg\" src=\"http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Nieuwe-Waterweg-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Nieuwe-Waterweg-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.waterbouwpastor.nl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/Nieuwe-Waterweg.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0<em>Maassluis<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Bij de begrafenis bleek \u00e9\u00e9n van de dragers een oud-leerling van hem te zijn geweest. Toeval, en misschien ook wel niet. Hij wist nog een paar mooie verhalen te vertellen.<\/p>\n<p>In de dienst heb ik ook zelf een paar woorden gesproken. Over zijn zeevarende leven: &#8220;Na de oorlog volgden jaren van opbouw. Varen bij de visserij en later bij de koopvaardij. In korte tijd stuurman bij de kleine handelsvaart en vervolgens kapitein. En dat voor iemand die niet de gelegenheid had gekregen zijn middelbare school officieel af te maken. Engels sprekend, Frans sprekend, bruinverbrand, makkelijk in de omgang met mensen van alle rangen en standen, een gerespecteerde &#8216;ouwe&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Maar er was nog veel meer te vertellen. We zullen hem op allerlei manieren erg gaan missen. Aan het einde van de dienst zongen we de Nederlandse versie van zijn lievelingslied: &#8220;Abide with me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Abide with me; fast falls the eventide;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">The darkness deepens; Lord with me abide.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">When other helpers fail and comforts flee,<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Help of the helpless, O abide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a0<\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Swift to its close ebbs out life\u2019s little day;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Earth\u2019s joys grow dim; its glories pass away;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Change and decay in all around I see;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">O Thou who changest not, abide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Not a brief glance I beg, a passing word;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">But as Thou dwell\u2019st with Thy disciples, Lord,<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Familiar, condescending, patient, free.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Come not to sojourn, but abide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Come not in terrors, as the King of kings,<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">But kind and good, with healing in Thy wings,<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Tears for all woes, a heart for every plea\u2014<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Come, Friend of sinners, and thus bide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Thou on my head in early youth didst smile;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">And, though rebellious and perverse meanwhile,<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Thou hast not left me, oft as I left Thee,<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">On to the close, O Lord, abide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a0<\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">I need Thy presence every passing hour.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">What but Thy grace can foil the tempter\u2019s power?<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Who, like Thyself, my guide and stay can be?<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Through cloud and sunshine, Lord, abide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a0<\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">I fear no foe, with Thee at hand to bless;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">I<span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">lls have no weight, and tears no bitterness.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Where is death\u2019s sting? Where, grave, thy victory?<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">I triumph still, if Thou abide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Hold Thou Thy cross before my closing eyes;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Shine through the gloom and point me to the skies.<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Heaven\u2019s morning breaks, and earth\u2019s vain shadows flee;<\/span><\/address>\n<address style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">In life, in death, O Lord, abide with me.<\/span><\/address>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>In Memoriam: Nicolaas Dirk Francke (* 28 juni 1926 \u2020 23 maart 2014)<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ik had al even niets meer op mijn weblog geschreven. 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